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April 01 How are you ?嘿，你好吗？我很好。我已经结婚，and have a cute baby. She was born just over three months. Her birthday is on the same day with me, I love her very much.
June 12 木言可亦我
我有三个缺点:不够温柔体贴:非常懒;挺傲(不是骄傲,是发自内心的孤傲).有三个优点:自然;自信;自我(自我的人才会注重自己的价值不断发挥自己的潜能).
尊重
被人欣赏和认同,是我需要的.但是,我更加看重的,是对我的尊重.
出类 另类
每个人都想要出类,有些人却不允许自己另类,一些既出类又另类的想法一出现就被自己扼杀了,只是为那些无谓的少许改动而沾沾自喜.
说不, 就不
如果有人要你去做你不想做的事,很简单----说不!不需要借口,一个礼貌的微笑和坚定的"不"就够了.不要妥协.要是别人不理睬你发出的信息,那不是有更好的理由说"不"了吗?转身就走吧.
孤独
孤独是美丽的,女人是抒情的,但即使这样,仍可以肯定的是所有孤独的女人都知道并不是＂越孤独越快乐＂➽那就成熟一点,接受它,面对事实.
识时务者为俊杰
世间有许多的事是自己愿意去做,别人也乐意你去做的,既然这样,为何因为它缺乏＂个性＂而放弃了呢？
伤害
所有女人所受的伤害,都是她自己愿意受的,她不愿意受的伤害,伤害不到她
勇敢的心
女人的勇敢常常会令男人惶惶不安,其实没有任何女人是生来就勇敢的,一次次的遭遇会使原本脆弱的心灵磨练得坚强勇敢.
Actually the name was nonsensical
"姓名本來是沒有意義的；我們叫做玫瑰的這一種花，要是換了個名字，它的香味還是同樣的芬芳"
命运
生命之河并非一条直线才是完美的,所以也不必要苛求一条直线.智慧的人不会着重于现实中的某一件事件来解决某个问题.
如果你在这个勾心斗角的社会里需要一个朋友，那就养条狗好了．
运气
使人一下从贫穷变成富裕.然而内心不富有的时候,外在的富有留也留不住.
乔治．阿玛尼
时装→是生命中的一些本质；风格→是每个人都有资格拥有的真正奢华，无论你富有与否；典雅→则是在喧腾的潮流中持守宁静．
The Patek Philippe
你从来不可能真正拥有一块名表，你所做的，只是为下一代看护好这块表.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.
There are no limits
Everyone has a past.but it's all behind you.NOW.Believe in magic,you walk in it ... NIRVANA
与其在等待中死亡,不如在烈火中涅磐.
There's a place in each life that no one fill but a friend.
浮躁
现代人的浮躁原因在于文化底蕴的肤浅,而中国博大精深的历史文化 恰是人们了解当今社会的明镜.
缘分
在你的成长过程中,这个人的使命完成了,再没有必要抓住这份缘分不放,学会让它走.
Chanel
她让女人们的身体和心灵同时从沉睡中醒来☽,懂得了自尊与自爱,更懂得了工作着的幸福与独立的价值..
最后伤害的是谁
相爱的人深居在彼此心里，欲想伤害对方，首先要划开自己的心．如此的结局是你哭了....我痛了
美人以花为貌;以鸟为声;以月为神;以玉为骨;以杨柳为姿态;以秋水为柔情;以诗词为心态;以冰雪为肌肤.
两个人的战争
二人世界的战争，不是为了消灭对方，而是把对方变成自己的人.
忘记一个深爱过的人，就是把自己反锁起来．等到想出门时，却发现钥匙在那个被自己忘了的人手上..
几千年了，爱情还是一个容易受伤的孩子．那是因为，每一次被击碎承受疼痛的都是人.
When it comes to falling in love,Just let it be
November 16 Thank youThank you for comforting me when I'm sad.Loving me when I'm mad.Picking me up when I'm down,thank you for being my friend and being around.Teaching me when I need a shove.Thank you for standing behind me in all that I do.I hope you're as happy with me as I am with you.If I could save time in a bottle the first thing that I'd like to do is to save everyday until eternity passes away just to spend them with you,if I could make days last forever if words could make wishes come true, I'd save everyday like a treasure and then again I would spend them with you.You're always there for me when things tend to go wrong.It's that faith you have in me that make sour love strong.It's your loving and your caring and knowing that you're near that gentle touch you have make my troubles disappear.We share so much together and you always pull me through.Thank you for standing behind me in all that I do.我们分享生命中的每一天， 你永远带领著我， 感谢你一直支持著我， 不论我作了些什么。August 01 The Life I DesiredThat must be the story of innumerable couples, and the pattern of lifeof life it offers has a homely grace. It reminds you of a placid rivulet, meandering smoohtly through green pastures and shaded by pleasant trees, till at last it falls into the vasty sea; but the sea is so calm, so silent, so infifferent, that you are troubled suddently by a vague uneasiness. Perhaps it is only by a kink in my nature, strong in me even in those days, that i felt in such an existence, the share of the great majority, something amiss. I recognized its social value. I saw its ordered happiness, but a fever in my blood asked for a wilder course. There seemed to me something alarming in such easy delights. In my heart was desire to live more dangerously. I was not unprepared for jagged rocks and treacherous, shoals it I could only have change-change and the exicitement of unforeseen。
William Somerset Maugham
 这一定是世间无数对夫妻的生活写照，这种生活模式给人一种天伦之美。这样的安逸中好像有一种叫我惊惧不安的东西．我的心渴望一种更加惊险的生活。July 15 Those Childhood Days - -When you came into the world, she held you in her arms.
You thanked her by weeping your eyes out.
When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.
When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.
When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.
When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.
When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud.
When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, “I'm not going!”
When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.
When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.
When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.
When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.
When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.
When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
Those Teenage Years
When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.
When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.
When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.
you thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.
You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.
When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all night.
When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
Growing Old and Gray
When you were 19, she paid your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.
When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, “It's none of your business.”
When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
You thanked her by saying, “I don't want to be like you.”
When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.
When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.
When you were 24, she met your fiance10 and asked about your plans for the future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, “Muuhh-ther, please!”
When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.
When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked her by telling her, “Things are different now.”
When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were “really busy right now.”
When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.
And then one day she quietly died.
And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder.
“Rock me baby, rock me all night long.”
“The hand who rocks the cradle...may rock the world”.
Let us take a moment of the time just to pay tribute and show appreciation to the person called mom though some may not say it openly to their mother. There's no substitute for her. Cherish every single moment. Though at times she may not be the best of friends, may not agree to our thoughts, she is still your mother!!!She will be there for you...to listen to your woes, your braggings, your frustations, etc. Ask yourself...have you put aside enough time for her, to listen to her “blues” of working in the kitchen, her tiredness? Be tactful, loving and still show her due respect though you may have a different view from hers. Once gone, only fond memories of the past and also regrets will be left.
Don＇t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Love her more than you love yourself. Life is meaningless without her ... June 19 If I Could Catch a RainbowIf I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you And share with its beauty On the days you’re feeling blue. If I could build a mountain You could call your very own A place to find serenity A place to be alone. If I could take your troubles I would toss them into the sea But all these things I’m finding Are impossible for me. I cannot build a mountain Or catch a rainbow fair But let me be what I know best A friend that’s always there. April 12 Love I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you .
No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is ,won't make you cry.
The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them。
Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile。
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world。
Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you。
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have。
Don't try to hard, the best things come when you least expect them to。
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful。
I Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened。
不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。 March 31 Find yourself你必须充满创造力,想想不同的表达方式
给自己设定挑战的目标.提高对自己的期望,
自己和自己竞赛..
 不要管别人的安排,坚持你自己的.终你所找到的你将是你自己创造的你.
Find yourself. You make your own luck. March 21 The C wordCommitment is emotional intent backed up by action.不要索取一个承诺,尤其是对你的伴侣．因为这样做，你根本无法知道这种承诺是否发自真心．Commitment isn't something you pledge,it's something you do.When they are there beside you,doing all the right things at the right time and in the right way,their commitment will be obvious to you.March 16 You need BUTTERFLIES in your HEART
You need butterflies in your heart - not in your stomach! The good thing about decisions is that most of them can be changed sumply by making another. Have faith and remember it takes courage.
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你曾注意过旋转木马上嬉戏的小孩吗？
你曾聆听细雨落在地上溅起的声音吗？
你曾追逐过飞来飞去的蝴蝶吗？
你曾凝视着落日渐黄昏吗？
你最好慢下来，
步子不要那么快，
因为时光短暂，
生命之乐不会持久．
你是否每天忙忙碌碌，慌慌张张，
当你问声＂你好吗？＂
你是否听到了回答？
当忙碌一天后，
你是否躺在床上还想着明天的种种烦琐事？
你最好慢下来，
步子不要那么快，
因为时光短暂，
生命之乐不会持久．
你是否曾告诉你的孩子明天将要做的事？
而匆忙之中没有留意到孩子的伤心，
你是否曾因失去联系，
而使一段珍贵的友谊无奈凋零？
你最好慢下来，
步子不要那么快，
因为时光短暂,
生命之乐不会持久.
当你匆匆往某处赶时，
你就错过了在马路上的乐趣；
当你生活中满是焦虑和急促时，
日子就象未开封的礼物，
这样就被你丢掉......
生活不是速度的竞赛，
让我们放慢生活的舞步，
在曲终人散，
仔细倾听这生命之乐．
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January 06
在你的记忆库中...
生活多年,所见甚广,你最珍藏的图景是什么?哪些构成了你的记忆库,存储着被你收入脑中的世界的图景都是什么?
也许有这样一幅或一些图片,那是你小时侯的,或是你父母结婚时候的.也许有一张是你某次从杂志上撕下的图片,或是一张来自远方的奇怪明信片.每幅图片都会唤起你的愉悦.痛苦.安宁或者无数的其他情感.
就像画廊中的画作一样,你可以多年后杂看看这些图景,他们依然如新.然而,图景依旧,人非当年,你的感受也会随着你的改变而改变.因此,不时地温习一下脑中那些图景,来剪辑.确认.替换它们,并且(或者)你看看那些破碎的,或者是给你痛苦的图景,能否赋予它们新的意义.
在你的记忆库中......In your memory bank......
狠下心，如果你收藏了一些不好的图景，它们会长久地伤害你，删除它们．下决心去找些新的图景来刺激你的创造力．你的思想会从各种方向千百倍地回报于你，而且．这些新图景会帮助你在生活的探险中不断地前进．向上．
想个办法，记录下那些你看到后会被吸引的图景．旅行中带一个笔记本应该是一个好办法，几下你生命中的每个变化，他们也许是你生命中的转折点，但却隐约得要多年后才能让你意识到呢．
为了前行，你必须冷静地看待并释放过去．要想有一个充实的人生，你必须不断地丢弃一些东西，空出位置来装更多的东西．
IN ORDER TO MOVE FORWARD,YOU MUST MAKE PEACE WITH,AND RELEASE THE PAST.IN ORDER TO HAVE A FULL LIFE,YOU MUST CONSTANTLY LET GO OF THINGS AND CREATE NEW SPACE FOR MORE FULLNESS.
January 04
Biggest Happiness
Love is the joyful origin. Has an intimate spouse is the life biggest happiness.
December 18
HEARTBREAK IS A PART OF LIFE
虽然我们对友谊的崩溃的反应不同，但几乎每个人都曾至少经历过一次．你完全可以自行好转，只是你事先:认识到所以发生的，或没发生的事情，都是宇宙为了你而制度的计划的一部分.确信你必然经历悲痛．愤怒．迷惘和悲伤，但是最终你会恢复过来，变的更加智慧，并得到成长.知道爱是无尽的，你要付出多少爱就能有多少.相信爱是没有局限的，将来你会爱上另一个人，也会被他人所爱，甚至多得远远超过你的想象.记住不要为丢失一个滑板而号啕大哭，因为前面正有一辆劳斯莱斯在等着你.
两只小狗的爱情--
Almost everyone has experienced at least once and we each react differently to the breakdown of a relationship.You can help yourself get through it ,though, if you ake it on in a proactive way:REALIZE that whatever is happening (or not happening) is part of the gland plan the Universe has divined for your highest good.DECIDE that you will go through the grife,anger,disbelief and sadness,but ultimately you will recover,to be wiser and having grown.KNOW that love is infinite and you can generate as much as you consume.BELIEVE there are no limits to love,and in the future you will love another person and be loved more than you possbily imagine.REMEMBER not to be so caught up with crying over a lost skateboard that you miss the Rolls Royce that's parking right in front of you.
December 14
know your own beauty
 LOVE AND ACCEPT YOURSELF.Feel the JOY that is your natural birthright
.EXULT in your own existence,for it is a MIRACLE that you are here at all.Understand that you are connected to all that you admire in the physical world and that it is merely a manifestation and reflection of all that is beautiful WITHIN YOU.了解自己的美丽之处,这个世界上所有你羡慕的东西都与你有关联,这个世界也不过是对你的内在美的显现和反映. |
December 05
..Wind Flowers
Wind flowers, wind flowers
My father told me not to go near them
He said he feared them always and told me they carried him away
Wind flowers, beautiful wind flowers
I couldn’t wait to touch them , to smell them, i held them closely
And now I cannot break away
Their sweet bouquet disappears like the vapor in the desert
So take a warning, son
Wind flowers, ancient wind flowers
Their beauty captures every young dreamer who lingers near them
But ancient wind flowers, I love you!
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